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Video: My Molester Is Still A Jehovah's Witness Elder

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jehovah\'s witnesses child abuse video In 1965 a boy was molested by a ministerial servant in a congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses en route to an assembly, where the molester was due to give a talk at the convention.

Revulsed, the boy was nevertheless forced to be around this molester in the years ahead in agonizing cruel ways.

When the matter came up before the Service Dept. of the Watchtower in Brooklyn, and the elders in the local congregation, no reply was given, no apologies, no offer for counseling an abuse victim, just the warning that you “could be disfellowshipped for gossip.”

See his compelling testimony in the following 20 minute video.That in spite of the fact that the molester not only acknowledged his dirty deed to the young man later on, but that the other elders and Brooklyn had “taken care of the matter.” The molester moved on to be a Special Pioneer and elder in the boy’s congregation. He remains an elder in Jehovah’s Spiritual Paradise to this day. No offers for help were ever given to the young man, who will remain anonymous as he is still technically a Jehovah’s Witness.

The following video is a shocking reminder that in spite of the Watchtower’s Public Relations Dept. and their statements on their website, the Watchtower Bible & Tract Society is still VERY MUCH INTERESTED in keeping molesters a secret in the congregations of Jehovah’s Witnesses, even using such ones in responsible positions! Will such a one be coming by your door soon? In his letter to Brooklyn dated March 2005 the victim, who chooses to remain anonymous because he is still a Witness, writes the Governing Body these questions in the light of their refusal to address his previous letters to Service Dept. Rep. Lon Schilling:

1. Why was I never contacted by the Service Dept. or a Judicial committee as a sexual assault victim?

2. Why was I not offered psychological and emotional help as a victim of sexual assault?

3. Why did you not keep him away from me?

4. Why was this action committed in Jehovah’s Visible Organization?

5. Why did the Governing Body torment me by having such an unhealthy and inhumane child abuse policy?

6. You paid him to be in my face while I was still a minor; you paid him as a special pioneer and appointed him to be my elder in Mountain City, TN. Why? Were you not psychologically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually beating me up in the JW Spiritual Paradise by appointing him as the Presiding Overseer of my congregation?

See the compelling testimony in the following 20 minute video. The video is seperated into 3 parts:

Part 1:

Part 2:

Part 3:

Categories: (Sexual) Child Abuse
  1. James NON-JW
    December 25th, 2007 at 22:34 | #1

    Man, can you believe this ignorance?

  2. James
    December 25th, 2007 at 18:29 | #2

    This sight is a playground for (some) people who love to speak without quoting the scriptures. May Jehovah himself be glorified in the world-wide, faithful activity of his own servants, whom he himself knows.

  3. Anonymous
    December 11th, 2007 at 21:26 | #3

    SO ARE YOU BLAMING THE POLICE OR THE CHURCH FOR THE ACTIONS OF THE PERSON WHO TOUCHED YOU? SHOULDN’T YOU JUST BLAME THE PERSON AND IF THAT PERSON IS NOT PUNISHED BY THE POLICE OR BY THE CHURCH THEN CAN YOU NOT WAIT FOR JUSTICE, WHAT MAKES YOU SPECIAL I WAS TOUCHED BY SEVERAL PEOPLE ALL LIFE UNTIL I WAS OLD ENOUGH TO STOP IT MY SELF, AND I CAN’T SAY THAT I HAVEN’T HAD SO EMOTIONAL TIMES, BUT I ALSO WOULD NEVER BLAME MY PASTOR OR THE POLICE THEY ARE BOTH THERE TO HELP ME NO I DO NOT AGREE WITH ALL THAT THEY DO BUT I RESPECT THAT THEY ARE AS IMPERFECT AS I AM AND CAN NOT SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS, SO I JUST HAVE TO WAIT. IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO GET TO THIS POINT BUT I DECIDED THAT I WAS NOT GOING TO ALLOW MY ABUSER TO CONTINUE TO RUIN MY LIFE.I HAD TO TAKE CHARGE OF MYSELF.

    IF ANY OF YOU WANT TO BECOME HAPPY I WOULD HOPE THAT YOU WOULD DO THAT SAME THING I DID TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE AND FIND HJAPPINESS BY NOT TRYING TO JUDGE OTHERS EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU KNOW EVERY THING THAT HAPPEN IN THERE LIFE.

    BEST WISHES

  4. Anonymous
    December 11th, 2007 at 21:10 | #4

    instead of going to the jw’s with your complaints if they are indead true go to the police. if my house got robbed i’d call the police not the church leaders.

  5. September 27th, 2007 at 04:35 | #5

    i have been desfellowshipped, according to them, but i feel i was misjuded they did’nt even visited with me in a group ,like i have seen them do others. but yet they try to treat me as if i am some kind of murderer or something. where is jehovahs love here?

  6. Markus
    September 18th, 2007 at 23:32 | #6

    Liz,

    Yep, no doubt about it Jehovah is love:

    Classic example: seeing as you are too brainwashed
    to tune in again, this is for other readers. I do pray you have the guts to tune in again, all this is in your very own Bible. Hey if don’t believe me pick up your good book and read the goodness, wish I could love HIM like you but somehow I lost the plot, and would rather be eaten alive by sharks than grovel to your God.

    Numbers 31: 1/13-18
    1 The LORD said to Moses,

    Lets Skip a few, no Lizzy, not out of context read and understand:
    13 Moses, and Eleazar the priest, and all the leaders of the congregation, went forth to meet them outside the camp.
    14 And Moses was angry with the officers of the army, the commanders of thousands and the commanders of hundreds, who had come from service in the war.
    15 Moses said to them, “Have you let all the women live?
    16 Behold, these caused the people of Israel, by the counsel of Balaam, to act treacherously against the LORD in the matter of Peor, and so the plague came among the congregation of the LORD.
    17 Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known man by lying with him.
    18 But all the young girls who have not known man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.

    Now I’m quite sure the above ladies were then given honourable jobs like doing the washing and cooking.
    How could one possibly rape a woman guided by a God, who allows the murdering of little children, and would allow a raping of an young virgin. After all he has his standards, as you will notice by reading on.

    Biblegod also gave orders to kill off ALL the little boys. “Onward Christian Soldiers”, get your sword and thrust it thru the little five year old’s belly- yeah, the cute little boy with the angelic smile- that’s the one, right over there, crying over his bloody dying mother YOU just sliced and diced. And slice up his little four year old buddy- cut his arm off, cut his legs off- play with him first and then just let him bleed to death. Keep killing the little boys until your arms are so tired you don’t think you can kill another one.

    As you mentioned Jehovah is love for what else could he be. Hell I love him too, for he is God so I should only grovell and pray, perhaps one day I too can be in paradise.

    Cheers,
    Markus

  7. Anonymous
    September 18th, 2007 at 13:44 | #7

    Liz you scared me so much with your response that my balls are still shaking.

    Hum, or are they still shaking because because of the elders wife I just screwd this morning, apparently she complains the husband is to busy with kingdom hall affairs and not time for her. Food for though!

  8. LIZ
    September 17th, 2007 at 18:39 | #8

    Everone on here is extremely immature, I thought I would be able to listen to some Kingdon melodies, but this is crazy! Well, you all are being watched by Jehovah and only he knows what he has in store for all of you, For all of your cruel Gossip!! Jehovah is LOVE

  9. bluesmurf92
    August 26th, 2007 at 05:42 | #9

    Josh,

    Your arguement, which I’ll sum up as “every religion has its bad apples, not just JW’s”, seems odd, considering that they believe theirs is the only TRUE religion, led by Jesus Himself, and that ALL OTHER religions are led by satan.

    But in my mind, it’s not a matter of which religion believes what, or does what. It’s a matter of PROTECTING our children from harm. I think that’s more important than ANY religion.

  10. James NON-JW
    July 15th, 2007 at 14:09 | #10

    Retribution time may soon be here!
    A day of reckoning may indeed arrive for all of the JW victims.
    Read of the settlement in California from the Catholic Church: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,289321,00.html

    Can you imagine if payouts of this nature were bestowed upon the JW victims? I personally would love to see this happen. First and most importantly, it would give the respect & spotlight to those suffering from this indignity and secondly it will be a huge blow to the arrogance & wealth of the Watchtower Society.

  11. jbs
    July 6th, 2007 at 12:08 | #11

    Watch Tower Society is not the tower of all terror, you are an obvious slanderer.

  12. Tosh
    June 26th, 2007 at 18:32 | #12

    I understand that some people who have been jehovah’s witnesses in the past, and were removed from the congregation now feel ostracised and bitter. But to act like these issues: ostracism, overpowering parents, sexual abuse, are unique to the organization of jehovahs witnesses is ridiculous. There are sick people of all faiths. There are fanatics of all faiths. The catholics who stand outside abortion clinics screaming at patrons. The islamics who commit murder and suicide in the name of their god, and so on. The fact that certain people have a personality type that causes them to take their beliefs to the extreme is an indvidual issue. not a religious issue. I was raised a jehovahs witness. I currently dont attend because i know i cant live up to bible standards the way i should. The same reason so many catholics only attend church on easter. Because they know that even a church that harbors child molesters would not approve of their overdrinking, fornicating, adulterous ways. So why go and pretend to be holier than thou knowing you’re not? There are many JW’s who lead double lives because they don’t want to be judged. BUt thats true of anyone who comes from a devout christian family. How many spanish and italian catholic women have parents who are still under the impression that they are virgins, because their daughters have never had the nerve to admit to them that they’ve fornicated? I know i can’t fool god. so i dont bother attending at this time. Tho i still know right and wrong. And not based on what a watchtower told me, but based on what i read in the bible itself. whether it be king james version, new world translation or other. The same principles apply in all. You’re either living by it or you’re not. Just because you can’t doesnt mean you should judge people who still try.

  13. June 14th, 2007 at 22:57 | #13

    as a christian currently a member of the elim [penticostal] i cannot get round the jws obcession with blood transfusions as i have worked with quite a few of them in my time they even have cards stating that they must not be given blood in any circamstances but they do not follow the dietry law as stated elsewhere in levicticus as followed by the jewish muslem and 7th day adventist congregations.Also here in the uk all churches have to follow the safe from harm which have to be posted on the noticeboards stating the police have to be informed in such serious matters as this and not an internal matter this applies to all places of worship jim

  14. Anonymous
    June 14th, 2007 at 14:48 | #14

    i think you need to seek professional help there hun. those words are really not good. And you need help to loosen that anger.

    jessica.struthers@gmail.com

  15. Anonymous
    June 12th, 2007 at 22:17 | #15

    You could really use some counseling from an Elder. I’m not saying what your aunt did was right or wrong, but think of this obviously your parents loved you enough to come home once they heard of what had happened. Also it depends on the year and times that it occured, What I mean by this is for example in 1983 it was still an alowable form of discipline to slap your child, now it isnt. A lot of things have changed in the passing years. Think of this… Is it really this important to continue dwelling on this? Is it helping you further your life in any way? Do you feel better after rudly slamming your Aunt? Remember she is your elder, and therefore you should respect her!

  16. Katy
    May 31st, 2007 at 08:26 | #16

    That is what the “organization” wants you to believe! They instill fear in to you so you won’t have the mind of your own to seek out real truth. Cults are so exclusive they make you afraid to step out of it & learn more. I am so sure of my faith that I could speak w/ anyone, anywhere & KNOW THAT I KNOW & not be afraid that I would stray from GOD! You have been misled. I was a “witness” for over 24 yrs, I know the in’s & outs & the only thing they have truly proven is….THEY ARE FALSE PROPHETS. Do research for yourself…..your eternity depends on it & so does your happiness. What does the Bible say of False Prophets? It’s very clear.
    God so loved YOU, He gave His Son to die. He came to give us not only life, but life abundantly! Jehovah wants YOU to follow HIM, NOT a man made organization! Stop listening to the lies & allowing yourself to be blinded. Stop being afraid of people who know what the “dark side” of the “organization” is offering.

  17. Katy
    May 31st, 2007 at 08:16 | #17

    How do we find this download???? I copy & pasted the title & got some Lutheran Chuch invitation…..Witnesses would love that! my email is mksievers@hotmail.com if you ever get back on this site. THX

  18. Katy
    May 31st, 2007 at 08:07 | #18

    Joana,
    I am praying for you. You have been misled in a BIG way. Why would you be on this site if you were so sure of what you are doing? God, Jehovah, is LOVING, GRACIOUS & KIND, along w/ so many other traits that are NOT shown in this “organization”. The Bible tells us in John 13:35~ “This is how everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have LOVE for one another.” The JW Organization has proven over & over again….they DO NOT HAVE THE LOVE! You are not speaking to people here who have not been a part of this group. We have experienced the effects from this false religion. DO NOT BE MISLED. Pray that Jehovah reveals HIMSELF to you in a very real way. Give your life over to HIM & NOT an organization trying to take the place of the Holy Spirit. We, as Christians, are to be Spirit led, NOT led by man. Gal 5:24-26 “Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also be guided by the Spirit. Let us stop being arrogant, provoking one another”.
    I am sincere in my desire for you to know the real TRUTH that God intended for us all. Many Blessings to you.

  19. Richard Johnson
    May 27th, 2007 at 03:55 | #19

    Picking on JW’s? What a joke! I spent over 20 years living and working with WTS members and remember how often they would rag on the Catholics, taking pleasure in denouncing the Catholic Church’s coverup of molestation by priests. One of the elders in our Kingdom Hall always carried a newspaper clipping in his wallet about a local priest that had been accused of molesting a member of his church. He would pull it out with glee everytime he talked with a Catholic or former Catholic. He would then give his typical “this is why they’re bad and we’re good” speech. Well, what’s good for the goose…
    Although I’m not a Catholic, I often found it odd that every single Watchtower that I’ve ever read had some anit-Catholic article or quote in it somewhere. I used to joke that there must be some guy in Brooklyn whose sole job it is to come up with some anti-catholic rhetoric for the Watchtower. Those who live in glass houses…

  20. Ryan
    May 13th, 2007 at 08:19 | #20

    For those of you who think that bad things never happen in the Kingdom Hall, think again.

    I attended Kingdom Hall a long time ago with my Aunt and Cousin, ok while I never did get molested myself and never was aware of whether or not any Molesters were in the congregation that I attended, I do remember a couple of times when my Aunt had grabbed ahold of me during Kingdom Hall when I was trying to retrieve one of my markers (some scratches with the nails occured too).

    The same Aunt had slapped me once when babysitting me when I knew what was on my clock and it was not exactly time for bed yet (my Mom and Dad quickly came home after that, my Parents allowed me to stay up a little later that night as they understood that I was too upset then to even fall asleep, my Dad also told me he would give my Aunt a talking to as well).

    I also remember when the same Aunt would blast the Radio loudly other times she babysat, practically ignoring me and my Sister (my Sister detailed this fact when a family meeting occured to try resolving our own problems that were going on).

    Now ok im not trying to bash my Aunt here, I don’t shun her or anything, and we do occassionally contact through E-mails every now and then (she is living in another State these days), but I bring this point up because if any of you Jehovah’s Witnesses out there are trying to convince us that bad things never happen in the Kingdom Hall, I cannot and will not be fooled about the so-called perfection.

    Im sure you are aware of the hypocrisy of the Pharisees that Jesus dealt with, well guess what Witnesses, some of you are acting just like the Pharisees right now, do you want to behave like the Pharisees?

  21. hi
    May 10th, 2007 at 02:16 | #21

    will these dreams still follow me with a dark obscurity?cant u see it up in the sky as it kicks u in your face and lets you die? you never had the awnsers but now u tell me the facts of life i really cant be bothered with u get out of my face and watch me die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I TRY TO GRAB IT BUT THE TOUCH IS HOT THE MIRROR COLLAPSES BUT THE IMAGE DOES NOT I SCARE MYSELF CAUSE I KNOW IM RIGHT I SEE THE EVIL IN YOUR SAVAGE EYE AS CUTS RIGHT THROUGH THE SKY THE LESSON NEVER FADES AWAY BURNING INSIDE BURNING INSIDE BURNING INSIDE BURNING INSIDE BURNING INSIDE

  22. Darlene
    May 4th, 2007 at 07:24 | #22

    Yes.. it is a hidious crime… I too was sexually molested by an elder who was preying on not just me but others. i have struggled with coming forward… I have yet to at this time….
    Lables mean nothing…. Catholic, JW,Luthern,Baptist…. Those are only lables. Jehovah see the heart. If this man is wrong…. Its not your problem… Who are you to judge?… That job is taken by the almighty… you already know that.
    There is a sickness out there that preys on people.. it hasnt a conscience… it has a desire…. that outweighs all other reasoning. I still battle with my decision.. Pray that I find peace. Thanks

  23. Katy
    March 24th, 2007 at 09:34 | #23

    Carlos,
    If you read the bible, you’ll read of Wolves in Sheeps clothing, false prophets & Jesus being our 1 & only Savior, that the HOLY SPIRIT will be our guide. Your “organization” sets themselves up to be ALL OF THOSE!Do not close your eyes & ears. Do not allow pride in your beliefs to blind you to truth.

  24. Katy
    March 24th, 2007 at 09:28 | #24

    I acn give you the names of 5 of my friends who were molested by JW’s. Your comments are a slap in the face to people hurting from real crimes. Sorry if it hurts your feelings to find out what JW’s are really made of. I learned to leave it in God’s hands, I trust HIM to take care of it, not some self proclaimed “society”. GET OUT! I pray your eyes be opened!

  25. not so stupid
    March 23rd, 2007 at 15:46 | #25

    you must be very stupid if for a moment you believe there is not molestation within the jws’

  26. How stupid do you think I am?
    March 23rd, 2007 at 00:56 | #26

    Its a lie everyone here knows it, you can tell from his body language. Test it yourself, ask someone something you know they will lie about then watch their eyes look away, or they might touch they’re face. Oh and where are the facts, even dateline couldn’t produce facts, just accusations and assumptions. I mean why only witnesses. They’re just easy to pick on, and honestly did they really do you wrong or are you just assuming there’s something wrong with them because some one said something about them. The strange thing is that they’re being accused of child molestation, the most heinous crime anyone can think of. I mean come on thats a little to obvious, try something a little more origional. Everybody’s calling everyone they dont like a Pedofile.

  27. Carlos Munoz
    March 8th, 2007 at 02:35 | #27

    What a load of rubbish get a life im a Jehovahs wittness and u chat the most. If u read the bible it warns against people like your self . . . . . . . . . .

  28. James NON-JW
    February 23rd, 2007 at 03:40 | #28

    Just when I was developing some respect for Clinton…..
    Clinton, if you are truly not a JW, have you read their magazines?

  29. James NON-JW
    February 23rd, 2007 at 03:04 | #29

    Thanks for your comments and let me point out some errors even though I originally wasn’t interested in doing so, you have created the culture, so let’s go for it.

    It would seem you are assuming that either I am the author of this story or that every person posting a comment has been molested?
    It’s not highly important to me if you do not take all of my comments seriously, however do you take illiterate, grammatically error laden comments from the JW clan seriously? I think not….
    You also demonstrate the inability to ask first before assuming. If you took the time to read older postings of mine, you will easily see that I spent & still continue to spend much time lovingly helping others to see the right light. Along with this, you haven’t actually inquired as to why I and others are frustrated with the comments by JW’s that approach lunacy.

    I genuinely appreciate your feedback/comments Clinton and I sincerely do wish you the best.

    Thank you.

  30. clinton
    February 22nd, 2007 at 23:32 | #30

    James …you have made another error in your comment, I am not a jehovahs witness,but your comments lack objectivity…your just out to hit these people…Your comments are entertaining but I fail to take them too seriously. Hell I hate people with bad breath…shall we start a website?

  31. clinton
    February 22nd, 2007 at 23:21 | #31

    Damn now thats a smart answer, Im not a Jehovahs Witness but considering that this site is dedicated to hitting them into the ground from all sides, I think that I would definately consider asking them to answer a few questions ppersonally next time they knock on my door…I cant believe that they all are what is claimed on this website…the ones that I have met are good guys….I live in South Africa, how do I get these people to visit me? Anyone out there???

  32. D111115
    February 21st, 2007 at 15:28 | #32

    A few other sites you might wish to visit–www.jehovahs-witness.com , http://www.watchtower.cc , http://www.watchthetower.com , and http://members.aol.com/Beyondjw/bj.htm . All contain either articles about the Witnesses, comments by those who are (or were) actually witnesses, or both.

  33. D111115
    February 21st, 2007 at 15:17 | #33

    Anyone who disputes that the Jehovah’s Witness religion harbors pedophiles should look up http://www.silentlambs.org and check out the reports there.

  34. Mark
    February 20th, 2007 at 20:31 | #34

    Thank you Jones,

    indeed very good reading. Because a lot of it was a while back I had previously missed that.

    Mark

  35. Jones
    February 20th, 2007 at 16:09 | #35

    Mark;
    You can find a lot of the history that Tony has shared with us under this particular article. I hope that he does not mind that I bring this to your attention. His experience is here for all the JW’s to read and learn from. That is why this forum is so important to those willing to expose themselves (no pun intended). Maybe we all can use these to help those we love and many that we come in contact with. Shared pain can be a good thing if something good comes out of it. Tony also has shared other websites that you may visit too. Good reading to you and any others who are interested.

  36. James NON-JW
    February 20th, 2007 at 02:57 | #36

    And I too feel sorry for you!
    Think about it, without even so much as a thought or objective study, you assume that your religion is all-knowing and the truth, right?
    Yeah, good luck with that one.

    Please do not get upset with us the messengers. We didn’t create the Watchtower and its wrongfully stated prophecies; we didn’t coerce them into association with the UN or to purchase companies that are involved with weapons manufacture. No, we didn’t consult with them or advise them on how to cover up immoral practices at Bethel or how to protect pedophiles. We didn’t create the culture of hypocrisy & deceit they embolden, yet we are the guilty ones?
    No, we woke up. YOU SHOULD TOO.

    Once we got off our soap boxes & out of our ivory towers, we realized that we weren’t to judge everyone else’s salvation.

    By the way, I was never molested, however if I even contemplated coming back to this false religion, I wouldn’t ask, no I would demand to know how many in that Kingdom Hall & surrounding halls had members guilty of or a suspect of such disgusting activities such as pedophiles. Only a fool would let their children be in the proximity of such garbage, yet many are still in good standing within your little dream world.

    Come on think about it, if this was any other operation, wouldn’t you condemn such disgusting practices? With the aforementioned facts, no, not lies or fallacies of the Watchtower & its cronies, how does your faith differ from other false religions?

  37. clinton
    February 20th, 2007 at 00:58 | #37

    I would be careful if I was you about how you attack the religion!Your claim about being molested just may be true and that would not be taken lightly in Gods eyes, and those not tending to you will be severely punished as they would be deemed an enemy of the True God. However attacking the religion as a whole , which you are in fact doing, you may just be making yourself elidgible for the same punishment by the same True God.

  38. Clinton
    February 20th, 2007 at 00:31 | #38

    If what you say is TRUE I think that this person should be brought to task.However only you and Jehovah would know that.That is not for me to Judge.I am not a Jehovahs witness although I was raised as one and the teachings of the Bible do not condone this action at all in fact persons commiting these actions are disfellowshipped from the rest of the congregation and Jehovahs Witnesses would not even talk to such a person. What you say happened is terrible but you cant shoot the whole flock because of one sick sheep.As I see it, if parties have neglected your plight then they will be answerable to the almighty God for that, infact all those neglecting their responsibilities as shepherds will be totally answerable to Him and will be responsible for there actions as sheperds. As JW’s preach of a day of reckoning those doing such deeds and those neglecting the plight of the sheep will be reckoned with severely and those bringing disrepute on his organizations name will be reckoned with. It all lies with the Almighty at the end. May Jehovah judge and meet out the Justice, from my perspective only he will really know the real truth……

  39. Dustin
    February 19th, 2007 at 01:39 | #39

    I cant stand that relgion and them being christians is a JOKE >:(!!!!

  40. Anonymous
    January 27th, 2007 at 06:24 | #40

    fri ur an idiot!!!!

  41. January 26th, 2007 at 22:48 | #41

    i think that this man/ boy shude of toll the eldres inthe congregetion he was oing to bueause n the bibol it said that will shude respect the govement rules.

  42. January 26th, 2007 at 22:48 | #42

    i think that this man/ boy shude of toll the eldres inthe congregetion he was oing to bueause n the bibol it said that will shude respect the govement rules.

  43. James NON-JW
    January 22nd, 2007 at 15:05 | #43

    Excellent comment Matt, most ex-JW’s & even current serving slaves of the Watchtower see the hypocrisy & stupidity however do nothing about it.
    Funny how they like to preach that they are the strong ones taking a stand and fighting the ‘temptations’ of the world, when they have lots of dirty laundry in major need of airing.
    The whole charade projected by the Watchtower and its legion of fans/cult followers/slaves cannot be destined for too long a longevity anymore, despite how insane the whole faith is. The power of the Internet (websites/blogs/forums/email), blatant hypocrisy & wanton abuse are not the only items that are cutting into their reign of deception; it would also be their ridiculous doctrinal beliefs.
    Building a whole religious structure, albeit a massive empire, on world-ending philosophy is counter-productive to their agenda. Using a strong virus as an example such as Ebola to parallel this ideology, this virus attacks a living host unrelentingly for a 1-2 week span. Once it has replicated itself & killed the host, it desperately needs a way out to continue living. The Watchtower Society in like-manner infiltrates wherever it can, however its negligence & short-sighted doctrinal structure creates a veil of deception that only the uneducated and ignorant will fall for. With so much access to information and research in today’s world, why do we continue to see those that fall for this nonsense? Only the ignorant can answer that question.

  44. matt
    January 22nd, 2007 at 03:41 | #44

    Well to eveyone I’m certainly glad that some of you were fortunate enough not to have experienced a molestation issue with yourself or others. About 6 years ago one of my good friends, a single mom, had her daughter molested by a member of the congregation. I knew this girl very well as she is the same age as my middle child, i have 3. she was such a happy loving little girl, always giggling, I was the only man that that her mother trusted her to be around because she was also molested as a child(she wasn’t associated with JW’s then) I often watched this girl along with my kids so my wife(a JW) and her could go get a breather, she was like my 4th child. One day she made a horrible comment to her mother about one of the girls in the congregation, something too disgusting to even think about. This girls father was the presiding overseer and her mother was a regular pioneer. My friend did as the JW’s encourage and confronted the parents, they told her she was a liar and if she spoke of this to anyone she could and would be disfellowshiped for slander as they claimed they talked to their daughter and she denied this. She confided in my wife and me and I said go straight to the police, she chose to speak to another elder and the judicial process began. It drug out for weeks all the while her daughter had to see this sick person at the meetings. In the end after repeated questioning the accused buckled and admitted to what she had done. She even admitted to doing these things in the bathroom at the kingdom hall! After this it was finally reported to the police, yet the girl still remained in her parents custody, attending meetings as though nothing had happened. By this time the father and mother of the other girl had told so many people that my friend was trying to destroy their “good” name that she was being shunned by the majority of the congregation. One night my wife was talking with friends after their meeting and turned around to see this sick child holding our baby, as you can guess things got real ugly. On her arrival home I was told the story and immediately call that girls parents. They claimed that they couldn’t keep a leash on their daughter as they had too many responsibilities in the congregation. I let them know full well that even though I wasn’t one of them that I would come to the meetings an keep a leash on her so she wouldn’t do this again. I also insisted that since their family was the guilty ones they should immediately change congregations so that my friends daughter and my children would never have to see this girl again. I was raised a JW and for 30 years saw many horrible things happen in the congregation, which is why i disassociated myself as did my friend years later. I never speak of the JW’s, good or bad, yet I’m called an apostate, I just chose to have nothing to do with any religion because they’re all filled with liars and hypocracy. So yes these things do happen in all religions, it just looks worse when a group claims to be the “chosen ones” and the closest thing to perfection, they’ve painted the bulls eye on themselves.

  45. matt
    January 21st, 2007 at 20:24 | #45

    Well Linda I’m certainly glad that you were fortunate enough not to have experienced a molestation issue with yourself or others. About 6 years ago one of my good friends, a single mom, had her daughter molested by a member of the congregation. I knew this girl very well as she is the same age as my middle child, i have 3. she was such a happy loving little girl, always giggling, I was the only man that that her mother trusted her to be around because she was also molested as a child(she wasn’t associated with JW’s then) I often watched this girl along with my kids so my wife(a JW) and her could go get a breather, she was like my 4th child. One day she made a horrible comment to her mother about one of the girls in the congregation, something too disgusting to even think about. This girls father was the presiding overseer and her mother was a regular pioneer. My friend did as the JW’s encourage and confronted the parents, they told her she was a liar and if she spoke of this to anyone she could and would be disfellowshiped for slander as they claimed they talked to their daughter and she denied this. She confided in my wife and me and I said go straight to the police, she chose to speak to another elder and the judicial process began. It drug out for weeks all the while her daughter had to see this sick person at the meetings. In the end after repeated questioning the accused buckled and admitted to what she had done. She even admitted to doing these things in the bathroom at the kingdom hall! After this it was finally reported to the police, yet the girl still remained in her parents custody, attending meetings as though nothing had happened. By this time the father and mother of the other girl had told so many people that my friend was trying to destroy their “good” name that she was being shunned by the majority of the congregation. One night my wife was talking with friends after their meeting and turned around to see this sick child holding our baby, as you can guess things got real ugly. On her arrival home I was told the story and immediately call that girls parents. They claimed that they couldn’t keep a leash on their daughter as they had too many responsibilities in the congregation. I let them know full well that even though I wasn’t one of them that I would come to the meetings an keep a leash on her so she wouldn’t do this again. I also insisted that since their family was the guilty ones they should immediately change congregations so that my friends daughter would never have to see this girl again. I was raised a JW and for 30 years saw many horrible things happen in the congregation, which is why i disassociated myself as did my friend years later. I never speak of the JW’s, good or bad, yet I’m called an apostate, I just chose to have nothing to do with any religion because they’re all filled with liars an hypocracy. So yes these things do happen in all religions, it just looks worse when a group claims to be the “chosen ones” and the closest thing to perfection, they’ve painted the bulls eye on themselves.

  46. Joanne
    January 5th, 2007 at 15:29 | #46

    It is so easy for people like you to ignore what has happend to people and their past experinces with JW’s becuase it is the easy route to take why acknowledge what is all around you when it is easier to close your eyes. I dont know if this story is true and i dont hate JW’s, i was raised by my mother as a JW and i can understand why she joined the religion because at the time she was in a vulnerable position, as she was having problem with my father and they offered her support, but by doing this rather than help re-build my parent marriage they underminded my father, when a religion claims that there foundations are based on family values i find this impossible to belief. When i was 16 i decided to leave my congragation in England and it was the best thing that i have ever done. I met my partner and dated for over 2 years and then we bought a house and we have been together for 7 years and my mother has always let my younger brothers and sisters come over and spend the night, but just yesterday she came around to tell me that she is pionnering and that she want to do everything right in gods eyes so they cant stay over anymore as i am not married. She has hurt me so much and i spent last night crying, how can you justify a religions right to break families apart. Iam a good person with a full time job training to be a Psychiatrist and i love my sister and brothers and no one has the right to take my time away from them. So get off you high horse and open your eyes.

  47. Deborah
    December 20th, 2006 at 22:44 | #47

    I would like to applaud you for your strength in speaking out on the abuse you suffered as a child that was gone unpunished and left you the victim. I viewed your video and felt your obvious anguish, and send you a warm hug for your strength. I also know from experience that abuse has gone unpunished within the JW organization, and experienced much personal anguish that impacted my life in an immense way. At this point, at the age of 41, I am still affected by the impacts of abuse as a child, especially within a home that claimed to be living god like. The many years of personal growth and learning though has brought me to a place I am okay. I wish this for you as well. I had posted a reply to one of the comments in this link, and will paste it below here as well.. for further information on my experience. I wish you well, and healing from your experiences!

    I am sorry to inform you that you are incorrect in your assumptions on how things are handled in the JW organization. I was raised in this religion from age 6 to 16 when I left home and the organization due to extreme mental, physical, and sexual abuse. Up until this time, I was the good girl everyone wanted their children to be like. Was active in the organization, and believed what I was taught. My stepfather was a violent man, whom abused all us children regularly, and also was a sexual abuser. At the age of 16 I did not tell the church what took place, but quietly, in a messed up way left home and church. I was then disassociated for not attending church. At the age of 19, my youngest sister came forward to tell me she had also been sexually abused, and had gone to the elders in her current location and reported it, having nothing done, but a meeting held, and the perpetrator crying, saying he was sorry. Nothing else was done, it was never reported to the police, and because he cried and said he was sorry, he continued to be welcomed in the organization. I at that time was so angry with God, religion and the fact that this man was still a member of the church in good standing. I then went to the elders in the congregation we grew up in, I had just recently at that time started to attend the meetings again, thinking perhaps this was the right choice. Upon speaking to the elders, I was told that it had been handled, and there was nothing else that could or would be done. I then left the church for the final and last time, feeling that I wanted nothing to do with an organization that permitted such attrocities, and protected the abuser, making the victim the wrong doer. It took me until 3 years later after seeing a psychologist to believe that I was not evil and the bad person due to the teachings and actions of this organization. I am a good person, honest, living well, and I believe that any god that allows this type of behavior to be overlooked in a church is not good. Many years of mental anguish and suffering have been placed upon my siblings and myself due to the abuses we experienced. My youngest brother a year and a half ago committed suicide, having never managed to overcome his confusion. I blame the church with their teachings, the overlooking of abuse that was obviously taking place in our home as children, for the decision for him to take his life finally. I only wish that he had come to the place I finally came to as an adult, that I truely was a good person, and although I no longer belonged to this organization, that I was okay. He was not able to get there.. due to the abuse.. he chose alcohol and drugs.. and his life ended much to soon. He is at peace now though I say, no longer tormented with the messages he was taught, and the memories of abuse. I believe a loving god will see this, and will have calmed his turmoiled heart upon death. It is a shame though that it comes to this, the young ones that end up messed up and confused due to the double standards taught, and experienced. I for one, raised a beautiful daughter, and have not raised her with a religion, but only to believe in a higher power, to love life, and the higher power that is somewhere out there. I wish once and for all, that whenever there is any abuse issue in the church that it is validated, so the individual can move on with life and heal. There are many good people within the JW organization, I know this, but the protection of those that abuse, either family or chruch members must stop, and if it is reported and known, they must be punished as the law punishes any abuser. This alone would help to bring peace of mind to the victims of abuse.

  48. Deborah
    December 20th, 2006 at 22:33 | #48

    I am sorry to inform you that you are incorrect in your assumptions on how things are handled in the JW organization. I was raised in this religion from age 6 to 16 when I left home and the organization due to extreme mental, physical, and sexual abuse. Up until this time, I was the good girl everyone wanted their children to be like. Was active in the organization, and believed what I was taught. My stepfather was a violent man, whom abused all us children regularly, and also was a sexual abuser. At the age of 16 I did not tell the church what took place, but quietly, in a messed up way left home and church. I was then disassociated for not attending church. At the age of 19, my youngest sister came forward to tell me she had also been sexually abused, and had gone to the elders in her current location and reported it, having nothing done, but a meeting held, and the perpetrator crying, saying he was sorry. Nothing else was done, it was never reported to the police, and because he cried and said he was sorry, he continued to be welcomed in the organization. I at that time was so angry with God, religion and the fact that this man was still a member of the church in good standing. I then went to the elders in the congregation we grew up in, I had just recently at that time started to attend the meetings again, thinking perhaps this was the right choice. Upon speaking to the elders, I was told that it had been handled, and there was nothing else that could or would be done. I then left the church for the final and last time, feeling that I wanted nothing to do with an organization that permitted such attrocities, and protected the abuser, making the victim the wrong doer. It took me until 3 years later after seeing a psychologist to believe that I was not evil and the bad person due to the teachings and actions of this organization. I am a good person, honest, living well, and I believe that any god that allows this type of behavior to be overlooked in a church is not good. Many years of mental anguish and suffering have been placed upon my siblings and myself due to the abuses we experienced. My youngest brother a year and a half committed suicide, having never managed to overcome his confusion. I blame the church with their teachings, the overlooking of abuse that was obviously taking place in our home as children, for the decision for him to take his life finally. I only wish that he had come to the place I finally came to as an adult, that I truely was a good person, and although I no longer belonged to this organization, that I was okay. He was not able to get there.. due to the abuse.. he chose alcohol and drugs.. and his life ended much to soon. He is at peace now though I say, no longer tormented with the messages he was taught, and the memories of abuse. I believe a loving god will see this, and will have calmed his turmoiled heart upon death. It is a shame though that it comes to this, the young ones that end up messed up and confused due to the double standards taught, and experienced. I for one, raised a beautiful daughter, and have not raised her with a religion, but only to believe in a higher power, to love life, and the higher power that is somewhere out there. I wish once and for all, that whenever there is any abuse issue in the church that it is validated, so the individual can move on with life and heal. There are many good people within the JW organization, I know this, but the protection of those that abuse, either family or chruch members must stop, and if it is reported and known, they must be punished as the law punishes any abuser. This alone would help to bring peace of mind to the victims of abuse.

  49. Anonymous
    December 10th, 2006 at 02:35 | #49

    YOU ARE ALL SICKOS

  50. fri
    November 24th, 2006 at 17:37 | #50

    Armageddon? I am looking forward to hell, a place where most my friends will be. Fire, with lots of barbeques I hope. Girls dancing naked around the fire, lots of drinking and so on……. I am looking forward to it.

    Cheers Markus.

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